blambastian: i feel like a lot of hostility towards seblaine comes from assumptions that the fandom makes. we don't know a lot about him. 'cos he's forward when it comes to blaine, people assume that he's a slut. i honestly see seb as having a crush that he doesn't know how to deal with and that he acts on inappropriately. him trying to break up klaine is obviously wrong, but i see it as out of desire for blaine, not a sign he is a cheater for life. he's misguided and an ass, but flaws are interesting.

well it’s a character on the show so making assumption is all people can do here.

and while we dont know a lot, we know that his immediate response to Blaine’s ” i have a bf” was ” i dont care” or something like that, we know he picks up random people in a bar (20-min relationship guy?) and from his little advice that he gave to David, it’s safe to assume he’s pretty shallow.

desire alone is just a shitty reason for me. and again, not a cheater for life, just a horny kid.

oh i like flaws, but Blaine seems like a romantic guy and this particular flaw of Sebastian’s is just not something a romantic should have to deal with